I don’t think he asked me a single question about myself. He was a software engineer or did something in tech (as they all did).
He rode his bike around town he had good taste in food and wine and he lived across the street from where we were meeting. He was trim, tall, bearded (as they all seem to be), a recent transplant, having only lived in Seattle for a year or so and worked at a start-up, after burning out at Amazon (as they all seem to have).